
The psychotherapist will tell you there are several kinds of love. You can watch a 30 minute video of me presenting on them here.Īsk a physicist, and they’ll tell you love is chemistry.Īsk a romantic, and they’ll tell you it’s a yearning that drives all great fables. I first learned about these as they were briefly mentioned in my Human Design Foundations classes. In this article, I’ll introduce the love codes that can give you a general theme of how you love as an introduction and point you to further resources to learn about them. In Human Design, there are layers and layers and layers of “keynoting” words or word-phrases that help us understand the function of the 64 Genetic Codes and their 6 different binary ways they show up in humans. Personally I find great fun in unlocking the mysteries of how we connect, feels like reading those Nancy Drew novels when I was a kid. Yet remember to follow your body into alignment. Remember entering into relationships correctly is about Strategy and Authority, not what your mind thinks about any of this stuff. The more I decondition, the less attractive and real those movies seem, as I’m captivated more by the real-life movie I watch in the people who come to me for advice in their romantic partnerships. We are all designed to love, care, and have sex uniquely! The funny thing is, although I’m using these homogenized movie dramas to illustrate the point that we all have different ways we’re attuned to love, there are billions of reality shows going on right now, and none of them fit perfectly into those categories above.


Or how about a romantic thriller, the kind of damsel in distress show that has you on the edge of your seat? Oooh here’s my favorite - the fantasy adventure with some magic on the side? Maybe the unrequited love and romantic drama is more your style? Perhaps you’re in a steamy romantic action film? Knowing YOUR way of Loving, Caring and experiencing Sex can offer clues to help you accept the kind of movie you’re in.Īre you more of a chick-flick kinda whirl, or maybe romantic comedy is your thing?ĭo you have a “Romeo and Juliet” style of storyline?

Do you desire profound keys to how you are designed to successfully, peacefully and surprisingly connect in partnership and love relationships that are satisfying? IHDS Certified Human Design Relationship Analysts like myself can help!
